Normally I would write an introduction here and explain who I’ve interviewed. I’d give a little recap of their career, what they’ve recently appeared in and so on – but that is not necessary here. After getting carried away on an hour long phone call, GCB’s Mark Deklin and I managed to cover everything from Tarzan to Richard III, Thelma and Louise to ‘white marriages.’ I’ll leave it to you to read this fascinating discussion with the incredibly smart, good humoured, and brilliantly gifted Mark Deklin.
BOTR: I’m a huge GCB fan boy so this is an exciting conversation for me.
MD: I know and thank you; we’ve communicated via Twitter before and I appreciate it!
BOTR: I love GCB! It’s hysterical! It really makes me laugh.
MD: (Laughing) Good! And I love that you’re using the present tense.
BOTR: Of course. Well it lives on for me, I watch it all the time.
MD: That really makes me happy.
BOTR: It never actually aired on television here in the UK, so there’s a lot of people here that haven’t seen it or don’t know anything about it.
MD: I had heard that. I wonder why, it doesn’t make any sense to me.
BOTR: It’s available on DVD and I really want people to watch it. Can you tell us a little bit about what people can get from GCB?
MD: Okay, first I have to ask you, am I calling Liverpool right now?
BOTR: Yes.
MD: Okay. I hear it. I have a very dear friend who’s from the area and you have the same accent. I was delighted because [when he married his same-sex partner] it was the first wedding my daughter went to and I thought that was really cool, that that was what her first experience of what marriage can be was. But you guys have an identical accent. He’s a great guy!
BOTR: That’s so strange because I only moved here 15 months ago but my friends always take the piss and say I’ve picked up the accent!
MD: Well he was originally from Manchester so I don’t know if his was a kind of blend between Manchester and Liverpool.
BOTR: I lived in Manchester for three years before this so maybe that is it…
MD: I definitely hear the north.
BOTR: (Laughing) Yes.
MD: (Laughing) But anyway.
BOTR: But anyway. GCB. What is it about?
MD: I don’t have a nutshell answer to that… I would say it’s based on a book which was a memoir, and our series was very loosely based. It jumped off point, we didn’t follow the book strictly by any means. But the idea was a woman who had grown up in a very specific, not just in Texas and not just in Dallas, but a very specific, very wealthy suburb of Dallas. Her name’s Kim Gatwin and this is a true story.
She had left and come to LA and was living the LA life with her husband, and her life kind of went to shit. A bunch of stuff happened and she was forced to go back home. [She] had been a mean girl in high school but had since grown up. She went back and found that a lot hadn’t changed; there were a lot of people who still lived at home, who still had that high school mentality, and this was their chance to get back at the former mean girl with some of her own tactics, and they ended up becoming the mean girls themselves.
That’s sort of the jist of it, and you know, it’s interesting – the title [Good Christian Bitches] – I know there were a lot of Christians who were sort of offended by the title, by the idea that you hear the word Christian and bitches together.
BOTR: Yeah. (Both start laughing)
MD: But I think what was missed was the title wasn’t saying, “Christian women are bitches.” You know, there’s a southern expression where someone will say, “I’m a good Christian woman.” Or you see it in westerns, where they make a reference to, ‘No Christian white man would ever do that!’ It’s a way of sort of identifying who you are, where you come from, and I think the title came from these women who were being very bitchy and mean but would hide behind this mask of, “I’m a good Christian woman, you can’t accuse me of being mean!” I think Kim Gatwin came away from those encounters thinking, “No, you’re a good Christian bitch is what you are!”
So you know, if they were taking the piss out of anything it was more the southern idea than the Christian idea. It just so happened that a lot of the action took place in church because I think that [in] a lot of those towns and societies, the church is the social sector. Interestingly we had a lot of Christian viewers; practicing Christians who loved our show, and rather than thinking they were being attacked, they actually felt that they were being addressed.
They’d say things like, ‘This is great, this is the first time I’ve seen my community represented on TV.’ I will say, I don’t practice any religion myself but I was raised Christian, in a church, and there were practicing Christians working on the show, and there was great care taken to make sure that it wasn’t poking fun at the religion itself, but it was poking fun at the hypocrisy of some of the people hiding behind their Christianity and not living up to it.
BOTR: I think it’s very successful at that. it highlights the mean girl, cool club, social element and how hard that is to penetrate regardless of how Christian you are.
MD: That’s right. And I think that’s the point; you can find hypocrisy in any circle. I don’t care if you’re Christian, Satanist, atheist, there’s always a clique that’s hard to break in to. That’s part of humanity.
BOTR: Well your character Blake was a character that had a lot of humanity. There’s a transparency and an honesty to his character, yet he was actually living a sort of double life?
MD: That’s something we addressed early on, because I don’t personally know anyone who’s closeted and if I do, they’re very good at it. (Laughing) I didn’t know what that was. I thought somebody gay but not ‘out’ was a liar. And it was really interesting to approach it in a different way. I’m not from the south myself, and Bobby Harling who wrote Steel Magnolias and created the show, he explained to me how there is this thing in the south that they call a ‘white marriage.’ It’s sort of an accepted convention. And he said Blake isn’t tortured, he isn’t self hating, it’s more of a role. He and Cricket know that in order to function in their society, and to succeed, there are certain roles that have to be played. So they’ve agreed to play the role together, but they’re very honest with each other. And to me that was what made me so interested in it. It made me feel like, I’ve never seen this character before. He’s living a double life, and his wife’s in on it, and they have a great relationship together. Except in the sexual department, they have a fantastic marriage, and that was really interesting for me to explore what the dynamics of that marriage might be.
BOTR: Which is quite ground breaking – this character isn’t seen in a lot of television shows. There’s often simple stereotypes rather than this kind of role. As an actor, when you see this role, do you think this is relevant, it’s politically important, I want to tell this story – or is there any kind of hesitation?
MD: Well you’ve asked me a multiple question there and the answer is sort of yes on all levels. Was there any initial hesitation? Yes. I would love to lie to you and say that I’m so enlightened that I didn’t think twice about it, but that wouldn’t be the truth. I certainly had a conversation with my agent and my manager and said, “Let’s just be really blunt here. Do we think this is a good or bad career move to play a character like this?” We had to have that conversation. You have to be honest with yourself about things like this, but what was great was that we then transcended that question. We were able to say basically, fuck that. Any role, if well done, can be ‘a good career move.’ Do you know what I mean?
BOTR: Absolutely!
MD: So let’s get to the heart of the matter; is it an interesting character to play? Is it someone who would be fun to play, and someone you can really sink your teeth in to as an actor? And there the answer was pretty obvious. It was. As an actor you’re always looking for a role that has levels, and secrets, and different layers than can be revealed over time, and with this character that was built right in. As an actor it was extremely appealing.
In terms of the story being told, the other thing I found was that there is a whole community of people out there who, because we live in a society where homosexuality isn’t fully accepted all around the country, and gay marriage is not available in all states, there is an inequality. So there are people that choose to live this lifestyle so that they can be treated like equals within their society. I guess I was a bit naive and didn’t realise how common that was. I had people reaching out to me and thanking me for this portrayal, and I didn’t realise that, okay, this is sort of important. And not to get really self important or make out like, wow, I’m curing cancer or anything like that, but I began to not just like the role as an actor, but actually take pride in what it represented at a larger level.
BOTR: You’re representing an entire section of the world where this really is a phenomenon; to live a straight life on the outside to avoid judgement, yet secretly have a life where they’re fulfilling their own sexual needs. It’s an important representation to finally be on television.
MD: I think so too, and if only because it hasn’t really been seen. Like you said, a lot of the time we fall in to easy stereotypes, but from the very beginning when we sat down to have meetings about where we saw the characters going, I made it very clear that one thing that’s really important to me is I don’t ever want Blake to be castrated, essentially. A lot of gay characters on TV fall in to this sort of flitty, harmless, ‘Oh look, there’s the funny uncle next door!” and I didn’t want that stereotype. It can be a lot of fun and make us laugh, but there’s a level where those characters become neutered. I didn’t ever want that to be the case with Blake. This is a man with biological needs and I don’t ever want that to be glossed over. They really honoured that.
BOTR: Well because that is so open from the beginning, with Miriam Shor’s character [Cricket], that level of transparency means it never feels sinister of deceptive. It feels warm to watch.
MD: Thank you. That’s something that was very important to us. We knew there was going to be the reveal, the image of Blake and Booth holding hands under the table. We knew people would immediately think, “Ooh, what’s going on, does she know?” And there was a discussion about how long do we milk that out, how long do we wonder if Miriam knows or not? And that would have certainly lent a very soapy element, but we wanted this character to fly, so it was very important to us from the start to be honest with the audience that these two characters are honest with each other. That became a real launching point for us, where once the audience realised, “Oh, she’s in on it!” suddenly the doors were blown wide open and we could do anything with this character.
Even in terms of the way of playing him, as an actor that was such a joy. Playing a character who on the one hand is a cowboy, he’s a butch, manly guy – but he also has his rainbow side. So it was so freeing, I could do anything – there was no wrong. I could butch it up in one scene, and then put on a silver lamé tunic in the next scene and it was all good.
BOTR: (Laughing) I love hearing you talk about these specific examples because I’m trying to be professional here but I love this show. I get so excited talking about it!
MD: (Laughs) I think it’s great! I love that you’re excited about it. It’s flattering and it’s wonderful. You know, the fans; it’s so sad that we didn’t have the numbers the network needed because the people who did watch and became fans were so loyal, and rabidly loyal – it was really touching for all of us.
BOTR: I watch a lot of television, and sometimes you think something might be cancelled at the end of the season, or even mid season, but I never had an inkling with GCB. I never questioned it, I presumed it would have a season 2, 3, 4. It’s really unjust.
MD: Thank you. And the truth? We didn’t either. We ended on that cliffhanger, we didn’t wrap anything up, but we thought we were coming back. We knew it wasn’t the runaway hit that we wanted it to be but we thought we were at least good enough that we could get a season two and then run from there. Apparently, from what I’ve heard, ours was the last decision made that season as to who would be returning and who wouldn’t, and it came down to us and one other show. They wanted to hang on to us but ultimately one of the shows had to be axed. And to tell you the truth it kind of screwed up the year for all of us, professionally. The entire cast missed out on pilot season because we were under contract, we missed out on a lot of opportunities to move on to other projects.
BOTR: I think people don’t realise that as actors you guys are sat around anxiously waiting to find out these things. I think people often presume all shows will just get another season, it’s TV, shows run for years, but it’s not actually certain at all.
MD: Right. And it’s changed a bit. Specifically the business of television [is] different from how it used to be. You look at some of the great shows and you realise that if you go back and look at their seasons, a lot of them had shaky first seasons. They hadn’t quite found themselves yet but they were given the opportunity to grow, grow an audience and a voice. You’re just not given that opportunity anymore. Part of that is the proliferation of cable channels; it’s not just which of the three channels do I watch tonight, it’s now which of the 400 channels will I watch? Or will I record it, or watch something online? And so if you don’t grab the big numbers right out of the gate the advertisers get nervous, they pull of their dollars, and sadly advertising is what drives television. If the advertisers pull out, you’re screwed.
BOTR: Just before we move away from GCB, because I could personally talk about it forever, I want to discuss the musical episode because that was my favourite of the whole season.
MD: It was one of mine too, it was definitely one of mine.
BOTR: Musical television has had a rejuvenation over the last few years. There’s show’s like Glee, and Joss Whedon did the musical episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and they all have a different take. With Buffy it was magical, with Glee they all burst in to song out of nowhere, Grey’s Anatomy was a kind of dream sequence, but this show went for realism. How did you feel about that choice?
MD: I completely agreed with it. We had multiple conversations about [it]. Bobby had approached me early on because he knew that I sang, and I wanted to sing if I had that opportunity. And of course they had set the perfect opportunity in the pilot with Carlene, you know, Kristin Chenowith. You’re not going to cast Kristin Chenowith in a show and not use that voice. Why would you? And when you’ve created a show where the spine, the social center is the church, why wouldn’t Kristin Chenowith sing in your choir? That’s so obvious. And so that device had already been put in place where it’s not magic, and it’s not a ‘musical’, it’s a real world and people don’t just burst in to song with orchestration out of nowhere. There’s a reason for it. And of course Miriam’s got a great voice too, so it made sense to set up this rivalry between Miriam’s and Kristin’s characters. That gave us excuses to hear Miriam sing, and that lead to a lot of fun stuff. You know, the sing off they had at the auditions.
BOTR: That’s my favourite! That’s one of my favourite scenes.
MD: I didn’t have any lines in that scene so literally my job when we were shooting was to just sit there and watch these two brilliant actresses go at it. We were all crying, we could not keep a straight face. And I was lucky that Blake was allowed to be amused by it, I didn’t have to keep a straight face. The bloopers barely dented the surface; that was a really fun day.
But yeah, going back to your original question, Bobby and I were talking about how do we introduce Blake to sing with somebody when we’ve already set up this convention where it’s not magic; how do we suddenly justify Blake bursting in to song? So Bobby had what was, I think, a brilliant idea of, of course, we put on a church musical. It’s one of the few moments where Blake’s ‘rainbow side’ gets to come out about. And even that was an interesting balancing act because it felt false where if I’d played it like – I mean, I could have played it where Blake’s show queen really came out, and I certainly could have played it that way and that would have been fun, but that rang false for me. It seemed to me that it should still have an element of, it’s not a show queen, it’s just a guy who’s still kind of a jock but happens to be kind of good at this. It should have that flavour, so everyone’s not there saying, “Oh my God, look at that guy, he’s flaming,” but that people just think, “Oh look, it’s Blake, and he’s kind of good at this.”
BOTR: It was a great acting choice, it was so funny.
MD: Yeah, we had a lot of fun putting that together. And the dancers that were there were great. You didn’t get to see enough of them in the final edit. They were so game. We did some basic choreography and then I just started making stuff up and they just went with it. And of course David was hilarious in his reactions as Jesus. And people have commented that that was such a brilliant acting choice on David’s part [David James Elliot who plays Ripp] to look at me like, “What the fuck is this?” But the truth is, and David’s a great actor, but that was literally just David thinking what the fuck is Mark doing? (Laughing)
BOTR: (Laughing) That’s hysterical!
MD: He was so game too. There was this take we did where I just went over to David and grabbed him and pulled him in to dance and we just went for it. We had so much fun. It was goofy and ridiculous and never would have made the final cut but it was hilarious.
BOTR: It sounds such fun. I mean, I’ll be walking around the house now, I go to make a cup of tea and I get, ‘It’s a miracle, miracle!’ in my head and I think, ‘Where’s that from?!’ and then I remember your scene.
MD: That’s one of the best compliments you could give! Thank you. (Laughing) I’m in your subconscious, I love it.
BOTR: All the time! I actually have a question for you from my friend Anna, who I know you’ve spoken to on Twitter before. You’ve had guest roles and story arcs and recurring roles on so many shows, from Desperate Housewives to Justice, Castle, CSI: New York, CSI: Miami, the list goes on and on. Anna wants to know of all the shows that you’ve ever worked on, which do you think has had the best writing? I know it’s probably like picking your favourite child but which did you really click with on a writing level?
MD: It is like picking your favourite child, isn’t it? I guess… that said, there is a quick answer for me and that’s probably Lonestar. That was a heartbreaker. You talked about not seeing the GCB cancellation coming, well Lonestar, none of us saw that one coming. It was the sought after pilot script of that season, everyone who saw the script wanted to be in it. I wanted to be in it. And sadly the audience didn’t get to see it unfold. They saw that brilliant pilot that Mark Webb directed but there were so many story lines that were yet to unfold. Kyle Kinnen is such a great writer. I don’t know if you caught his show ‘Awake’, with Jason Isaacs?
BOTR: No, I didn’t…
MD: Such a smart, interesting writer. And then when Jon Voight signed on to play my father, we just thought, “Oh my God!” We were on the front page of USA Today as ‘the best show you’re going to watch in 2010.’ And then a few weeks later we were cancelled. I’ve never seen the axe fall so quickly in my life.
BOTR: It’s so shocking when it comes from nowhere. Lonestar was described by yourself as a “cross between Dallas and Big Love.” Am I correct in thinking that?
MD: Yeah, I mean I did say that in an interview, and the truth is a lot of people are always trying to make the Dallas comparison, so I said that in response to a question, ‘Is your show the new Dallas?’ The truth is I don’t think we were a lot like Dallas other than we were set in the same city. We were a big oil dynasty with the patriarch and sort of evil zion so certainly there were parallels, but aside from the external parallels, I don’t think we were like Dallas. I think we were more like a cable show, and we always should have been a cable show. I always thought that Lonestar should have been on TNT, or AMC, or Showtime. It had that vibe.
BOTR: Do you ever notice that you have a tendency to be cast in a cowboy role? You have a kind of cowboy career going on.
MD: (Laughing) Yes and no. Hollywood tends to… people are funny, the way they think in Hollywood. I always tell this story, I was always playing these kind of suit-wearing professional types. Maybe they were detectives, but always a square jawed guy in a suit who would say a load of jargon. Then I did… I want to say it was an episode of Frasier. It was a period where I did a coupe of sitcoms, and literally all of a sudden I wasn’t being brought in for any of the square jawed suit guys, I was just being brought in for ‘sitcom guys.’
I remember I was in an audition and Dave Foley was there from The Kids In The Hall, which was odd because we’re not the same type at all. And we ended up seeing each other at about four different auditions and he came over and introduced himself and said, ‘Let me guess, they’ve decided now that you’re a funny guy.’ And that’s what they tend to do, they look at your most recent thing that you did well and say, ‘Oh, that’s what he does.’ So I wouldn’t say that people are generally looking at me and saying he’s a cowboy but for some reason I do connect with that whole southern thing, I’ve ridden horses my entire life and do feel equipped to play the cowboy.
BOTR: I think it’s that you really know how to wear a stetson.
MD: You know, that must be it. (Laughing) It really could be something as simple as that! You’re constantly trying to break out of [people’s] perception. Perception can be the death of you in this town, even if it’s a good perception.
BOTR: Is that part of the fun for you? To always be hunting down the next challenge and breaking out of molds?
MD: Absolutely. That’s a balancing act because at a practical level, this isn’t a hobby, it’s what I do for a living. How I pay the mortgage, put food on the table. There’s a part of me that thinks, if they think I’m good at this thing and want to keep hiring me for this kind of thing, maybe I should just do this thing. You know? But then that’s offset by the artist in you that doesn’t want to keep doing the same thing over and over again. I want to mix it up.
BOTR: That desire for evolution must relate to your career in general, because there’s part of your career that I find fascinating and that is that you used to be a fight director on Broadway.
MD: It’s very interesting because even that was never something that I actually pursued. It was something that I was fortunate enough for it to keep coming back to me. I had studied combat and part of classical training is that you learn how to use a sword, we were doing Shakespeare, and I had a certain facility for it to the point where I was getting cast in those sorts of roles so I would very often end up being the fight captain, and I got a reputation of being good at it.
I was playing Tybalt in Romeo and Juliet and the director was choreographing the fights and I would always tweak them a little bit. I just knew how to make them better. And finally when we were going to the next incarnation he said, “Hey, not only am I going to recast you again as Tybalt, but I want you to choreograph the sword fights.” I said that I wasn’t a fight director and he said, “Yeah, you actually are. You’re better at this than I am and I’d like you to do it.” So I was honoured. I did the best work I could do and it turned out to be quite good, and then over the years with certain producers I would get a call out of nowhere saying, “Hey, we’re about to open on Broadway and we’ve got this muddle of a fight moment, we don’t know what to do, can you come down and fix it for us?” I would say sure and go down town and fix the fight, and I hadn’t done anything that special, but because I was in the right place at the right time, producers would say, “You’re our guy now!” I’m think I did good work but I was also very fortunate.
Kline in the swashbuckling Cyrano de Bergerac
Even just a few years ago, I was lucky enough just as the writers’ strike was starting and LA was shutting down, and I got a call from producers I’d worked with ten years ago saying, “Hey, Kevin Kline wants to do Cyrano [de Bergerac] on Broadway; will you come in and choreograph the fight sequences?”
BOTR: Wow.
MD: Of course I would! (Laughing) What a charmed thing that was. I’m very grateful for it. Yeah, it’s my other career and it’s very interesting.
BOTR: Every actor has their tool box of skills and it’s great that you’ve got the swashbuckling thing, the horse riding, and you’ve also got a real personal passion for history. Does that inform your process when you’re trying to climb inside new characters?
MD: Oh. You follow me on Twitter! (Laughing) There’s no question about it. When I played Mark Twain a few years ago, it’s interesting; I’m not trying to compare myself to Daniel Day Lewis, but he got a lot of flak for his vocal choices for Abraham Lincoln. I thought he was fucking brilliant, but when I was playing Mark Twain it was the same kind of thing – playing someone who is a famous historical character, we all have a notion of what he looked and sounded like – but there aren’t any actual recordings. You have to do your detective work and figure out how you think he would have sounded. You don’t have conclusive proof, you just have to mark an artistic choice, so [history] definitely informs things like that.
My love of history is at peace with the fact that I’m a story teller. History is the story of our civilisation. It might not even all be true, who really wrote that story? Is that just one side of the story? You guys are seeing it now with Richard III being dug up.
BOTR: How crazy is that?!
MD: It’s amazing. I have a boner.
BOTR: I was going to say, that must be like history porn for you.
MD: It really is. There was even that one picture they have of his whole skeleton laid out and you see the scoliosis in the spine, and you read about the different humiliating scars they found – clearly somebody stabbed him in the ass after he was dead as a way of humiliating him. I almost feel embarrassed the way I would if someone walked in on me looking at porn. It’s so personal but of course for years there have been people who questioned [whether or not] he really was really such a villain or was that just Tudor propaganda? And now they’ve dug up the body, all those questions are being reignited.
There are princes in the tower that are supposedly in these urns that they have, and now there are people saying, “Well now let’s do DNA testing on that and maybe exonerate Richard, maybe they aren’t even the two princes that he supposedly killed.” There are church officials and royal officials who are really resisting that. It’s fascinating, it’s a story, it’s all drama. I find that context is very important to me, as an amateur historian. Everything happens in a context. As I approach a role as an actor, I like to find those layers and secrets because that’s the context. You and I aren’t just having a scene in a vacuum. There’s a whole context around us and if you don’t bring a sense of that to the character you’re going to bring a flatter, less multi-dimensional character, I think.
BOTR: It’s interesting that you call it a story because it really is when you see, for example Richard III’s skeleton and the scoliosis, and you see that recreated in the arts. Kevin Spacey played him last year with the hunched back, the strong nose with the bump, and it’s so interesting when that corresponds with artistic impression.
MD: It’s fascinating! I was reading a really interesting article with this woman who has scoliosis and the empathy she felt with Richard when looking at that picture. She was saying, “I can imagine how he woke up every day in pain, feeling twisted and uncomfortable. How he actually might have been a pretty irritable fellow, maybe with good reason. He certainly wouldn’t have been treated nicely by his peers.’ It’s all very fascinating.
BOTR: One of your next projects is the new Tarzan movie [starring Kellan Lutz]. Are you still filming?
MD: I’m not. I did that this summer and my part in that’s done but I know they’re still in post-production. Yes, I was in Munich working on that this summer.
BOTR: How was Munich?
MD: It was fun! I love Munich. I was lucky enough to spend a lot of time in Europe when I was younger; I lived in Vienna for a short spell and one of my best friends was living in Munich, whilst one of my other best friends was dating a girl in Bologna, so we had this triangle between those three cities for that summer, so it was lovely to be back.
I speak German but it is so rusty so it was nice to go back and get around without having to revert to English. And it was fun; CGI is an interesting process when you watch behind the scenes, which I do because I’m an incorrigible nerd.
BOTR: Obviously Europe is going to appeal massively with your interest in history. Have you ever travelled anywhere and thought, ‘Wow, I cannot believe I’m actually here’?
MD: I’ve actually had some of those moments right here in America. Sometimes in the most obvious of places. I’ll tell you, the first time I ever went to the Grand Canyon – have you ever been to the Grand Canyon?
BOTR: I’ve never been but I would love to.
MD: It’s such a stereotypical tourist spot and we’ve all seen thousands of pictures, everybody knows what it looks like, but I’m telling you, Olly – when you see it in person for the first time it is grand. It is a grand canyon. It takes your breath away. Photographs don’t even begin to do it justice, it is huge. The stratification of the rock, the different colours – it is stunning. My jaw dropped.
I felt the same the first time I ever went rock climbing up in Yosemite. My dad and I drove across the country together and hit the Badlands in Dakota. We got out the car and I have this great picture of my dad, it’s one of the last road trips he was able to take before his Parkinson’s became too bad, and there’s a great picture of him looking out at the Badlands. His jaw is on the floor like a kid on Christmas morning. Down on his knees. It’s quite wonderful.
The Badlands, Dakota
I guess I’ve had those moments in all sorts of places. When I was living in Europe we went skiing at a mountain where you actually take the tram up in to the bowl of the mountain. That took my breath away.
BOTR: Thelma and Louise is my favourite movie so I really want to go to the Grand Canyon and just basically pretend to be Susan Sarandon and look around.
MD: Of course! And I’ll tell you, maybe I’m just a weirdo, but my whole life I’ve picked out suicide spots. And not because I’m suicidal, but standing on the edge of a place like the Grand Canyon I look down and think, ‘This would be a good place to do it.’ Literally, if I had to choose my last moment on earth, flying through the air in this canyon wouldn’t be such a bad one.
BOTR: It makes for a great movie moment.
MD: Right! Right. Which of course you know was not their original choice of ending…?
BOTR: No, I didn’t…
MD: Originally, apparently, it was supposed to be a dream sequence, or an ambiguous, ‘is it real or is a dream?” The car was going to land and they were going to drive away.
BOTR: Noooooo…. I wouldn’t have liked that.
MD: Of course not! And again, apparently it was going to be done in such a way that it couldn’t really be justified as a fantasy. It was so much better just to have it fade to white as they’re airborne.
BOTR: Yes! Such an iconic scene.
MD: Oh God, yeah.
BOTR: I cried at the end of that move. I sobbed! I had become best friends with Thelma and Louise by the end of it.
MD: If you don’t cry at that movie you’re lacking something in the human being department.
BOTR: Yes! I love that you said that.
MD: (Laughing) I just love when people find unexpected moments of connection. Again, going back to our earlier conversation, working with Miriam. There were these two people who weren’t having sex, yet we could find these moments to connect and contact. Going back to Daniel Day Lewis as Abraham Lincoln, one of the things I noticed – did you see how many times he held hands with people?
BOTR: Yes!
MD: Unexpected people, like rough, gruff soldiers and he would reach out and hold their hand. It was the sweetest, tenderest thing. I love moments like that.
BOTR: And again that plays in to the history because we’re questioning our own preconception, and then we’re seeing the artistic conception. It can be nice when that sometimes clashes, and other times there’s a cross over.
MD: That’s right. And that’s what art is, it’s all about interpretation. At some point the line gets blurred between what was and what could have been, and I think it’s nice to explore both.
BOTR: To kind of wrap up, I guess, so I don’t keep you here all day which I would love to [at this point Mark and I have waxed lyrical for 45 minutes], what is the next great show that you want to star in that you haven’t yet been on?
MD: It’s always changing for me. There’s no set project where I say, “That’s the one!” For me it’s always about being different from what I have done [before.] I had a conversation with my manager recently about different possible paths and I’m really ready to play someone who’s dirty, and gritty. Really dirty and damaged but still with a heart and layers of complexity and humanity. Maybe someone who’s on the outside, a little busted and a little ugly and unsavory. But that’s because I always want to do something different. As far as stories I want to tell, they’re infinite.
Theatrically, a pet project of mine that I’ve always wanted to do is direct and produce a double production of [George Bernard] Shaw’s Man and Superman. I want to take the dream sequence from Act III out and perform it simultaneously next door in a black box theatre, as just the set piece ‘Don Juan in Hell.’ That’s something I’ve always envisioned and wanted to do, and I will do one of these days.
BOTR: It sounds like you’ve thought about it in depth!
MD: Oh yeah, definitely. Going back to your question about history, one of the cool things about theatre is the sense of history and context. Any time you step in to a role like Hamlet or something, there are all the shades of the actors who have played the role before you, they’re all with you. It can be daunting but I think it’s wonderful. We steal from each other but we also bring ourselves to it so it’s constantly evolving. I look at theatre and see more set pieces, like, ‘Yes, this is the play I want to do next,’ but I don’t look at TV and see the same specific thing. It’s about which story do I want to tell next.
BOTR: I’d love to see you in something really dark. I’d love to see you in something supernatural! Maybe witchy or demonic?
MD: I would very much love that. The vampire genre and zombies, they’ve become so popular.
BOTR: Horror television is the hottest thing, it’s very topical right now.
MD: It is and I find myself saying, “Am I really interested in creating the new Twilight?” Probably not. I would want to go more towards HP Lovecraft, that ball park. The Doom That Came to Sarmath (1920), do you know that story?
BOTR: I don’t!
MD: My God, I would love to do that story. Or even Asimov’s Nightfall. There was a film adaptation that I don’t think worked but those are stories that are haunting.
BOTR: Supernatural?
MD: Certainly The Doom That Came To Sarmath is. Nightfall would be considered more straight up sci-fi.
The basic idea is a world where they have multiple suns in the sky and multiple orbit patterns, and there’s always sunlight of some form. They’ve never experienced the thing known as nightfall, although there are legends about it. There’s a religious cult around it and it turns out that every couple of thousand years the orbital pattern is in such a way that there actually is a nightfall, and it’s apocalyptic. People lose their minds because it’s so disconcerting to them to be in darkness. They have no electric lights as they’ve never needed them so the entire planet descends in to panic, they end up burning down their own cities. It’s such a simple concept but so brilliantly written. A cool, really well told story.
BOTR: Although sci-fi shows do frequently get made, I find that there’s often not a lot of faith in them.
MD: They do, and I actually think you guys on your side of the pond have a better track record with it. Here largely what happens is it ends up going to the SyFy channel and it becomes formulaic or cheesy or predictable. It’s unfortunate, a lot of the time that falls down to budgetary concerns. But you guys have done a nice job with Dr Who, and what was that one with Barrowman?
BOTR: Torchwood.
MD: Yes! Thank you.
BOTR: I think it’s maybe our sense of humour in Britain; there’s a wit and a sense of irony to our sci-fi.
MD: I agree. I call it the Douglas Adams view of things. There’s no question. You see it in the old stereotype that British actors do words better than Americans but Americans do emotions better than Brits. I don’t think that’s true, but there’s a rhetorical tradition in British theatre and English society. Americans for whatever reason don’t have the same history of rhetoric as you guys do. It’s different and I really appreciate that light hearted British wit.
BOTR: I’d love to see you come over to England and work in the West End or maybe tour nationally.
MD: Make it happen Olly!
BOTR: (Laughing) I’ll call people.
MD: Get someone to send me a contract and I’ll be there in a heartbeat.
BOTR: I’ll start advertising. I’ve had such a great time talking today Mark, it’s been such a pleasure, it’s been such fun. Thank you so much for your time!
MD: Well it’s been a mutual pleasure. I actually just looked at the clock and realised that we’ve been on the phone a lot longer than I thought we had! Usually with interviews after about fifteen minutes I’m kind of looking at my watch, so yes, please take the compliment. It’s been lovely chatting with you!
- Mark Deklin can be seen in Tarzan in cinemas later in 2013. Follow him on Twitter @MarkDeklin.
Since ABC — unfairly, in my opinion, as my readers are aware — canceled “GCB,” I’ve been waiting to see its stars in other shows and movies. One of the series’ stars, Mark Deklin, can be seen next in an episode of “Castle” (to be shown this winter), as well as next year’s feature film “Tarzan” (which also stars Kellan Lutz, of “The Twilight Saga”). When I spoke with the always-charming and always-interesting actor recently, he told me all about his upcoming projects, starting with his guest stint on “Castle.”
Celebrity Extra: Without giving too much away, what can you tell me about your episode of “Castle”?
Mark Deklin: You’re absolutely going to hate me, because there’s so very little I can tell you. I feel like almost anything I tell you has the potential to be a spoiler, which tells you that it’s an interesting episode and an interesting character, but I’m afraid of tipping my hand.
CE: I know exactly what you mean, because “Castle” always has you wondering throughout the entire episode, sending you down some wrong paths, before they finally solve the case.
MD: One of the things I like about “Castle” — one of the things I think that makes it smart — is that they don’t throw in a red herring. I’ve been on crime shows before, and I always play the guy where it’s like: “Oh, he’s the jerk. I bet he’s the murderer.” Everybody always sees through that, because it’s so formulaic. The thing I like about “Castle” is that it’s not like that. The twists and turns could take you anywhere. The guy I play could be a good guy or a bad guy or just caught in the middle — there’s no way to know. And I can’t say a whole lot more than that.
CE: You’ve gotta give me a little something.
MD: We first meet him when his girlfriend is found dead. And he’s not a suspect necessarily, he’s just one of the people they are interviewing. This is clearly a guy who’s very saddened by her death. And then, of course, we meet him again later on in the episode …
CE: How was it working with Nathan Fillion?
MD: He’s a funny guy. He’s such a classic Canadian boy. And I mean that in all the best ways. You know, just so nice and personable and welcoming and down to earth — just a cool guy.
CE: How was the rest of the cast and crew to work with? Does the set have a nice working atmosphere?
MD: Everyone was just lovely. I’ve been in this business long enough, and I see how when you go on a different set, there can be good energy or bad energy. And I do sort of think it comes from the top down. I’ve been on sets where you just feel the ickiness in the air. Nobody’s horrible to you, but you can just feel that it’s not a nice place to work. That’s definitely not the case on “Castle.” I was getting texts from various people (who’d worked on the show) saying: “You’re going to love it. It’s such a great set.”
From the minute I walked on set, I felt welcomed. It’s very professional and well run. It all starts with Nathan and Stana (Katic, who plays Det. Kate Beckett), who are both just really chill and cool and laid-back. I had a lot of fun working with them. I worked with Jon (Huertas, Det. Esposito) and Seamus (Dever, Det. Ryan) as well — I actually knew them beforehand — and they were great.
You can tell it’s just a group of people who made a conscious decision to create a nontoxic work environment. It’s really nice when that happens. That was one of the things I really miss about “GCB,” because it was one of those environments. We all loved each other, and I loved going to work every day. And you don’t always have that working in television, so when you find it, you really remember those sets the most.
CE: I know it’s what sets up the whole story of “Tarzan,” but I am bummed that your character has to die in the beginning.
MD: It’s funny that that’s technically a spoiler, which cracks me up, because now everybody goes into the movie knowing that I die. But that’s the story — if the kid isn’t orphaned, then he can’t grow up to be Tarzan. So by definition, to make him an orphan, Mom and Dad have to get offed.
CE: What can you tell me about John Greystoke and his wife? What do we get to learn about them before you get offed?
MD: Jaime Ray Newman played my wife, Alice, and she’s great. Our characters kick off the movie. We get a little more action, a little more screen time than the parents in Disney’s “Tarzan” got. You actually get to see us interacting and figuring our stuff out. But it’s not the Victorian “Tarzan” that we all grew up with. It’s a modern take on it. My character is almost like a Richard Branson type — a wealthy but well-intentioned adventurer and entrepreneur. He discovers that there’s a serious energy source — sort of meteorite, which crashed in Africa — and he wants to find it. He brings his family with him, which of course is a stupid decision, but I suppose in the moment it doesn’t seem stupid because he doesn’t go thinking he’s going to die. He just thinks that they are going to be going on a safari. He ends up unleashing a mystical force that he never could have anticipated, and everything kind of goes
CE: Was this a fun movie to shoot?
MD: Yeah, it was really fun. It was cool. It was all CGI work, and I’ve done a lot of that for video games. It was amazing to see how technology has progressed just within the last year or so. My favorite part was watching Peter Elliot, who is based in London. He’s a stunt man, choreographer and also he’s an ape researcher. He worked on “Gorillas in the Mist.” He’s a fascinating guy. It was his job to turn these actors and stunt men into gorillas; how to move and breathe and occupy this gorilla space, and it was pretty amazing. If you watch the making-of trailer, it is pretty fantastic how these guys embodied these great apes, and to hear him talk about these apes with such passion. He was just fascinating to work with. And Reinhard Klooss — who directed it, from Constantine Films — was a really interesting cat too. It was cool. We shot in Munich — I had lived in Vienna for a little while, and one of my best friends lived in Munich at the same time, so I used to spend a lot of time in Munich. It’s a great city. I hadn’t been back in years, so it was really fun to be back there shooting and to brush up on my German, which is very rusty.
CE: Do you have a release date for “Tarzan” yet?
MD: I know it’s definitely 2013 in Europe. And I know that they want to get a 2013 U.S. release as well, but I don’t know.
… Mark Deklin, who plays Blake Reilly, echoed Eric’s sentiments, telling me: “What’s really touched me the most is the way the fans have embraced Blake and Cricket. The outpouring of love and loyalty across all the social media has been astounding. So my gratitude to the fans is huge, as is my admiration and affection for my colleagues. On the night we got the news that we weren’t being renewed for a second season, I got a text from Miriam (Shor, who plays Cricket) that said, ‘I will miss you most of all, Scarecrow.’ If there was a moment in which I got a little choked up, it was probably the moment when I read that text. I’ve become incredibly fond of the Caruth-Reillys.”
A blinding smile jumps warmly at me as he strolls on set, dressed down and impossibly charming. But
there is a lot more to Mark Deklin than meets the eyes. His is the story of an artist journeying through life wide-eyed and heart-first. Known for roles on DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES, HAWAII FIVE-O and HOT IN CLEVELAND, Deklin strikes white-hot with a new role as Blake Reilly on ABC’s GOOD CHRISTIAN BELLES (GCB).
HYDROGEN Magazine: Where did you grow up and how do you think your background has contributed to who you are as we sit here today?
MARK DEKLIN: I grew up in a steel town in Pittsburgh. I grew up on construction sites and there is something to being on a team and creating something. My dad is a big part of why I am the man I am today. He was an incredible man of character and I was honored to give his eulogy when he passed because I got to articulate what a role model he was. I have always tried to be the kind of man he would be proud of – high bar to aspire to.
HM: Tell me about your new show GOOD CHRISTIAN BELLES (GCB)? You play the secretly gay husband of Cricket. Tell me about the show and about your character Blake Reilly.
MD: GCB is a comedy that’s paced like sitcom but it’s an hour long. People will be struck by how funny and human, and emotionally honest it is. It’s huge and larger than life but is grounded in reality. Even with the hypocrisy and wackiness of it all, people will become emotionally attached. The show has a distinct voice which comes from Robert Harling (Steel Magnolias). It’s a southern voice that is very precise. He knows this world – what makes Dallas different from Austin or Hyland Park. Robert bounces ideas off us and our own voices end up on the page. Blake’s secret is laid out on the page to be built on. I had no template for this role. I have a lot of gay friends who are open, not tortured like Heath Ledger’s character in Brokeback Mountain. Blake has made a conscious decision to have his life the way it is and he’s cool with it. The character is a very collaborative with Bobby and I think we have created something special. Blake comes off as a Renaissance man and no one suspects he is gay. He’s an athlete and a clothing designer. It’s interesting how he and Cricket negotiate their marriage. They are both in on it and make their own rules.
HM: What’s this about you being a history buff – jazz pianist – art/book dealer…and fight director? Perhaps not in that order, but tell me more about your wide-ranging interests.
MD: As a younger man, I was trying to figure myself out and find my way. Music was always part of my life. My mom was violinist and pianist, and my dad was great lover of music. He introduced me to opera, and sang with this unchecked joy. I thought I would pursue music professionally until I realized it wasn’t my true calling but something I love. The history buff thing comes from my dad. I grew up around historical sites and it was his hobby and passion. I was that nerdy kid who loved to read about the civil war and I ended up being an English History major. As far as collecting, it started when I was assisting an art dealer as a survival job. It worked out great and then I booked The Lion King. When I went back to New
York the art dealer wanted me to be his eyes and ears for new artists and I took that knowledge and translated it into rare book dealing. My first edition was For Whom The Bell Tolls. I have a storage unit in Manhattan filled with books! With the fight directing, when I was in the conservatory, one of my teachers was president of the society of American fight directors. I passed a certification test thinking it looked good on resume, and years later, when I was in production of Romeo and Juliet, I was playing Tybalt and the director wanted me to take over the fight scenes. It was a great gift and years later the same people were opening another Broadway show and they asked me to fix the fight sequences. I was at the right place at the right time and it has been really nice.
A BIT OF FUN WITH MARK DEKLIN WHO OENED UP ABOUT LIFE & GCB
HM: Let’s get down to style. You seem to have an unfussy sense of style. How would you describe your look?
MD: I do appreciate style but unfussy is the operative word. I’ve mastered the style of no style, especially with fatherhood; there just isn’t enough time or energy. I remember for the GCB audition, I had a suit on and my daughter threw up on me. But I felt totally loose at the audition and went right back home to my daughter.
HM: Let me throw some names at you. Clooney, Pitt, Depp, Beckham. Which of these men’s style stands out to you?
MD: All of them for different reasons. Clooney is classic – Cary Grant-esque in suits and tuxes, just so cool. Pitt and Depp are both so good looking, they are almost beautiful and could have had careers just being pretty but they bucked that and chose roles that challenged conventional wisdom. It’s the same with their style, its almost weird. Beckham is fearless. He’s a footballer but very cool and comfortable in his skin, very much a combination of, “I care about style but don’t give a f**k what you think.” It’s funny, I was on holiday and had my head shaved and was walking down the street and someone yelled out ‘Beckham!’ It took it as a compliment.
HM: Who are some of your favorite designers for casual fare and then the more penguin suit affairs?
MD: I love vintage clothing. I also really like London-based designers. For shirts, I love Think, for suits Ted Baker always makes me feel like a million bucks or a good Hugo Boss suit works.
HM: If I caught you on a day off the set, what would you be wearing?
MD: Sandals, board shorts and a hoodie…not just because I’m a dad of a toddler but also because I live by the beach.
HM: How would you describe your character Blake’s style?
MD: Blake’s style is very different from mine. He’s a clothing designer in a corporate environment. Bob Blackman is phenomenal. He’s found a style that takes who Blake is on a page and marries it somehow to who I am. The character is separate from me but feels still feels like me if that makes sense. He’ll put a pocket-square, tie and shirt together in totally different colors and he’ll make it work. Where I would wear biker boots, Blake wears cowboy boots. Blake definitely wears tighter jeans than I would but I’ve grown to appreciate it and I feel a bit like a cowboy.
HM: If you could kill one trend, whether men’s or women’s, what would it be?
MD: For men it would be the mini-fedora. For women, I’m a leg man and love how the right shoe follows the line of a woman’s leg. It’s one of the things that attracted me to my wife but I am not into the platform shoes with chunky heels I see everywhere now. They are just not flattering.
HM: Do you have a daily regimen, workout that keeps you in fighting form?
MD: My wife calls it ‘Body by Mark.’ Over the years, I’ve done rock climbing, martial arts, pilates, ballet, you name it. I’ve cut and pasted and come up with my own regimen that I can do anywhere and requires no equipment. And then I’ll run or ride a bike for cardio.
HM: If you closed your eyes and looked 5 years down the road, where would you like that road to take you?
MD: Personally I’d like to have another kid because I love being a dad and would like my daughter to have a sibling. I’d also love to be in a place where I can take care of my family and have the freedom to say no to things. I’d love to do more films, maybe 1 play a year, just things that turn me on artistically. And definitely more travel and writing.
The sexy star of GCB, Mark Deklin (Blake Reilly) discussed playing a closet gay role amongst a sea of Good Christian Bitches, in a brand new interview with On-Air On-Soaps, Michael Fairman for Frontiers LA.com.
Deklin addressed his original concerns taking on the role, how he is loving his notoriety within the LGBT community, and how much he adores his on-screen relationship between Blake and Cricket (Miriam Shor). Might a little bundle of joy be on the way for this couple if GCB gets picked up for a season two?
Deklin, gives a sneak peek that a major threat looms for Blake and that his sexual secret may be revealed to the community in the season finale next Sunday! Here are a few excerpts!
Deklin on this Sunday’s climatic conclusion in GCB’s season finale! “I will tell you this. The last several episodes we have brought out a lot of the comedy. The first three or four episodes of my journey as Blake were about building his humanity and showing this wonderful warm-hearted guy that people could attach themselves to emotionally. And then in the next three episodes or so, I think we earned the right to sort of let Blake get a little bit wacky. We punched up the comedy which was so much fun. But now we are going to go back to a little more of the soapy element. We are going to introduce a storyline that is going to take a dark turn. The big secret is under threat and there may be certain forms of blackmail and extortion, and beyond that I can’t tell you or else I will be “spoiling”. (Laughs) And this is something people have been asking since the beginning of the show, “Is Blake and Cricket’s secret going to be exposed?” I am not saying it’s going to be exposed, but I will say, it’s under threat. “
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Deklin on how America fixates on a person’s sexuality over important issues, and when someone plays a gay role on television, it is looked at under a microscope. “No question about it. It shouldn’t be an issue. There are so many incredible role models out there now that I would hate to think that any kid growing up gay today, would feel the need to be marginalized, or hide in the closet, or anything like that. I would hope we are slowly evolving into a world where that is just not necessary, and as you say, where it’s just not an issue, but part of the fabric of things. Clearly, right now that is not the case. The thing that people want to talk about the most with this character is not, “Hey, let’s talk about that Texas accent you got.” Everyone wants to talk about the fact that I am playing a gay character. Obviously, it’s something our society gets hung up on, I think. Americans do sort of have sexual hang-ups. Look at all the time that was put into Bill Clinton’s blow job, and the rest of the world was laughing at us for caring that much. Somehow in the American media, violence seems to be okay, but sex suddenly ruffles feathers. I have played murderers, Nazi’s, rapists and spousal abusers. I mean really reprehensible people, and no one has made an issue out of it. No one has ever said, “Wow. Was is it difficult to take on a role like that?” And here on GCB, I am playing a nice guy who happens to be gay, and that’s what everybody fixates on.”
Deklin on if Blake finds his “Mr. Right” would he leave his wife: “Well, that is interesting. I don’t know the answer to that. People have asked me, “Is Blake going to come out of the closet at some point?” I have such mixed-feelings about that, because as Mark, I find myself going, “Well yes, he should. He should come out of the closet. And he should embrace who he is and wave his rainbow flag.” And I support that. But there is another part of me that has become so fond of Blake and Cricket and their marriage, that part of me hopes they stay together forever. So it’s a conflicting feeling I have. I mean, he has not met “Mr. Right” yet. Booth was “Mr. Right Now”. And back in episode two when Blake had to choose between his boyfriend and his family, Blake chose his family. I think Blake is truly and deeply committed to his family in a very unconventional and very unorthodox way.”
Deklin on if he likes the soap opera element to GCB: “I do. I think it really has its place. I know there is a desire for it in the viewing public. Clearly, both daytime and nighttime soaps have always been very popular. I think with the serialized format, there is something compelling about it, and the idea of not having every episode be a standalone, but the idea of ending with somewhat of a cliffhanger, or a “tune-in next week to see how this plays out.” I think there is some fun in that and teasing it out, and seeing how far you can stretch the chewing gum till it snaps. ”
Nobody could ever accuse Mark Deklin’s role of Blake Reilly on the hit ABC series GCB of being boring. I mean, the guy is doing quite the Texas Two-Step. Blake has got one foot in his marriage to his beloved friend Cricket Caruth-Reilly, and the other, having sex with men should the occasion arise. But the loveable thing about him is, through it all, Blake is a good guy, and through Deklin’s performances, he has made being the head of the fictitious Western Wear Division of Caruth Industries someone to root for!
Frontierscaught up with the steamy star to give us the inside scoop on playing a closet case and portraying a marriage on the down-low in this day and age. Plus, we get a preview of the GCB season finale (Sunday, May 6, 10 p.m. on ABC), which could spell trouble for Blake’s massive secret. Will he finally be exposed? And, Mark reveals what it has been like to take on a gay character on the small screen and have the LGBT community seemingly rally around him. Here’s what the extremely bright, charming and beyond sexy Deklin had to say about it all!
What first went through your mind when the powers-that-be at GCB first told you the back-story of the character of Blake, and that you would be playing a gay character on the series?
It was interesting because I actually read for the role of Rip, David James’ Elliot’s role on GCB, and also the role of Zack. It was my understanding they were considering Brad Beyer who plays Zack, for Blake. And, somebody at the network apparently said, “Let’s switch those two around!” So then I got called in and had a meeting with Executive Producer Darren Star to talk about the role. And I have to tell you, my first thought of playing a closeted gay man was very interesting because I don’t know anyone who is closeted. I am certain I probably had a certain prejudice about it that this is someone who is living a lie. So I was trying to wrap my head around it because it felt like a very old-fashioned notion to me, that in 2012 someone would live in a marriage like this. So I talked to them and said, “Help me wrap my head around this, to make it feel like something in our generation.” And they explained to me, and through Robert Harling, our writer in particular, that in the South there is this thing called the “white marriage.” It’s a lot more common than you would think.The other thing that he explained is that Blake is not tortured or self-hating. He knows who he is and he is comfortable in his own skin. But, he has made this arrangement in order to function in this particular society that he lives in, and it works for him.
I had heard that the show did not want Blake to come off as a “bad guy,” especially since he was hiding his true sexual identify. Would you say that is correct?
Yes, I think that was important for all of us. Let’s start with the fact that if he was lying to his wife, then I think it would be very hard for audiences to like this guy. I knew from the pilot script that this is someone who the character of Amanda could really rely on. Blake is going to turn out to be one of the most trustworthy, likeable, good-hearted people in that particular community. We had to get past the hurdle of how do you create that character in a situation that is essentially a lie? So what kind of happened was that the lie was taken out of it, and Blake is not lying to himself or Cricket, but they are playing a particular role within their society, and if you think about it… everybody does that. Everybody plays roles out in the world and home is where you get real. I have said in the past, we are not condoning that lifestyle choice, but we are not condemning it either. We are just looking at it and saying, “What might this look like?”
Do you feel whenever there is a “gay character” on daytime or primetime television he or she is put under a microscope? I would hope there would come a time where it would not be put under this microscope and just be part of the fabric of the show. But I guess that for many in the viewing audience it gives the show some much-needed interest.
No question about it. It shouldn’t be an issue. There are so many incredible role models out there now that I would hate to think that any kid growing up gay today would feel the need to be marginalized, or hide in the closet, or anything like that. I would hope we are slowly evolving into a world where that is just not necessary, and as you say, where it’s just not an issue, but part of the fabric of things. Clearly, right now that is not the case. The thing that people want to talk about the most with this character is not, “Hey, let’s talk about that Texas accent you got.” Everyone wants to talk about the fact that I am playing a gay character. Obviously, it’s something our society gets hung up on, I think. Americans do sort of have sexual hang-ups. Look at all the time that was put into Bill Clinton’s blow job, and the rest of the world was laughing at us for caring that much. Somehow in the American media, violence seems to be okay, but sex suddenly ruffles feathers. I have played murderers, Nazi’s, rapists and spousal abusers. I mean really apprehensible people, and no one has made an issue out of it. No one has ever said, “Wow. Was is it difficult to take on a role like that?” And here on GCB, I am playing a nice guy who happens to be gay, and that’s what everybody fixates on.
It’s amazing to me still to this day, but when you portray a rapist, nobody cares to call that out.
Nobody was saying about me, “Oh, do you think in real life he is secretly a murderer? Maybe we should think twice about him.” It’s really sad that we are so fixated on sex and sexuality. I think we lose sight of some other things that maybe we should be paying a little more attention to. I have a daughter and when she becomes sexual I am going to deal with that. I am much more afraid of her meeting with some sort of violence or getting into drugs or what have you, than one day her being sexually active. I think for a lot of people in our society those priorities get mixed around.
How is working with your on-screen partner on GCB, Miriam Shor (Cricket)? Do the two of you break out into laughter, either during or between takes?
She is the best! Miriam and I crack up all the time. First of all, she is hilarious, smart and witty. And the two of us for whatever reason just have this chemistry. We are both kind of nerdy and we are both kind of smart and articulate in our own way. So we make a lot of the same references, and are very often on the same page with things. For example, that Spartacus scene at the end of episode 7, when Blake and Cricket are in bed together quoting Spartacus and finally have sex, that was something Miriam and I came up with. But it is also a tribute again to Bobby Harling. He is such a collaborator and he is not proprietary about the project. He also wants us all to be involved in the creation of this thing. So he had come to Miriam and me when he had talked about the upcoming episode and he was saying, “I am thinking that they would be watching a movie like 300 or Spartacus.” Miriam and I just started quoting that scene with the snails and the oysters and we were both doing foo-foo Laurence Olivier impersonations. We were going back and forth cracking each other up being movie nerds. And then the very next day, we got the script and our entire conversation was in there verbatim in that scene. It was kind of wonderful. Bobby said, “I hope it doesn’t bother you that I basically took what you said and put it in the script?” And we said, “Are you kidding? It’s very flattering!” And we love when we get to inject our own personalities into this. So, that is my long-winded answer to your question. Yes, Miriam and I crack each other up. [Laughs]
There’s some “baby” talk—where do you see that going? Are Blake and Cricket going to have a little bundle of joy popping out soon?
I think if we are lucky enough to get a Season 2, I definitely think we will see a pregnant Cricket. I do. I think that is going to happen. I don’t know that for a fact, but I think our Spartacus night will bear fruit!
As any night with Spartacus should! [Laughs]
Somehow fruit and Spartacus go together! [Laughs]
Does Blake really want a kid?
Oh, yes. He very much wants a kid. I think for Blake it’s really interesting, because as an actor you can’t judge the character you are playing. As a human being we can pass judgments of course, but to play a character you have to sort of get inside their head. I was able to imagine someone who lives in a fairly conservative society where gay marriage and adopting kids is probably not going to happen. Again, me Mark, can say, “That’s not right. It should happen.” But regardless, this is the world this guys lives in. So this arrangement for Blake, in a weird way, is him being true to himself. He has found a way to be who he is sexually with a man, but at the same time be that pillar of the community and that father and all those other things that are genuinely a part of who he is. That is not all a lie. He is a great father and he loves his daughter, and he wants to have another baby, very badly.
Then does Blake truly love Cricket?
He adores her, no question about that. I think Blake and Cricket feel they have found the right arrangement that works for them. To them, it doesn’t even feel like a compromise. I think they really believe that this is great. “I am spending my life with my soulmate, but I also get to have sex with the people I want to have sex with.”
What do you think would happen if he found “Mr. Right”?
Well, that is interesting. I don’t know the answer to that. People have asked me, “Is Blake going to come out of the closet at some point?” I have such mixed feelings about that, because as Mark, I find myself going, “Well yes, he should. He should come out of the closet. And he should embrace who he is and wave his rainbow flag.” And I support that. But there is another part of me that has become so fond of Blake and Cricket and their marriage, that part of me hopes they stay together forever. So it’s a conflicting feeling I have. I mean, he has not met “Mr. Right” yet. Booth was “Mr. Right Now.” And back in episode 2 when Blake had to choose between his boyfriend and his family, Blake chose his family. I think Blake is truly and deeply committed to his family in a very unconventional and very unorthodox way.
The season finale of GCB is this coming Sunday, May 6. What can you preview that is coming for Blake as the season comes to its climatic close?
I will tell you this: The last several episodes we have brought out a lot of the comedy. The first three or four episodes of my journey as Blake were about building his humanity and showing this wonderful warm-hearted guy that people could attach themselves to emotionally. And then in the next three episodes or so, I think we earned the right to sort of let Blake get a little bit wacky. We punched up the comedy, which was so much fun. But now we are going to go back to a little more of the soapy element. We are going to introduce a storyline that is going to take a dark turn. The big secret is under threat and there may be certain forms of blackmail and extortion, and beyond that I can’t tell you or else I will be “spoiling.” [Laughs] And this is something people have been asking since the beginning of the show, “Is Blake and Cricket’s secret going to be exposed?” I am not saying it’s going to be exposed, but I will say, it’s under threat.
There is a soap opera feel to GCB. Do you like that element of it?
I do. I think it really has its place. I know there is a desire for it in the viewing public. Clearly, both daytime and nighttime soaps have always been very popular. I think with the serialized format, there is something compelling about it, and the idea of not having every episode be a standalone, but the idea of ending with somewhat of a cliffhanger, or a “tune-in next week to see how this plays out.” I think there is some fun in that and teasing it out, and seeing how far you can stretch the chewing gum till it snaps.
What would you love to see happen to Blake if you could have the opportunity to write something into his story?
It’s funny, one of the things I wanted to happen did happen. I pushed for the musical episode and because I sing, and because of Kristin Chenoweth (Carlene), and Miriam Shor, I was like, “C’mon, I want to do something fun.” So Bobby Harling and I brainstormed some ways to justify having Blake sing, because we are not making a show like Glee, so he is not going to just burst out in song for no reason. So in a sense, I have already had one of my wishes fulfilled. But in terms of bringing one’s skill set to the table and having fun with it, I am also an avid horseman. We talk about the fact on the show that Blake is also. So I am really hoping again, if we get a Season 2, that we get to go out to the ranch and we get to see some Equestrian fun.
You must be getting recognized out in public more than before because of your performance as Blake. But, what are people in the gay community coming up to you and saying, after seeing you in a gay role on GCB?
First of all, the recognition has been really nice. The whole LGBT community has embraced this character and I have always been sort of gay-adjacent. I feel like I am becoming this ambassador, which I love. When I find myself at these gay-themed events, whether it’s the Advocate’s 45th Anniversary or presenting at the GLAAD Awards, which I was completely honored about, what I am finding is, I have people saying, “Oh, yeah. I bet they love you at those events.” And what they are implying is, “Everyone is probably eye-fucking you.” And I have said, “You know what has been really nice is that it has not been that sort of cruise-y thing that you are hinting at.” The vibe has been more embracing of the show and saying, “We are so glad you are here.” I have been so delighted and honored by that.
It is wonderful when the gay community embraces you like that, because there aren’t many actors to watch on a consistent basis that are playing gay parts. Certainly it is better than it was several years ago, but even to this day there are not enough of them portrayed on television.
And again, on the one hand I thought, “There are going to be some people in the gay community who will not like this character because he is in the closet.” I was very aware of that. But I also said from the very beginning, “Hey guys. I am not going to play any stereotypes with Blake. I would like to break that stereotype. I don’t want him to be that sort of neutered friendly gay neighbor who doesn’t have any balls or sexuality.” I said, “I want Blake to always be manly and virile.” I am not saying that in a vain sort of way, I just don’t want him to be neutered. They have absolutely honored that. So I have had a number of gay men come up to me and say, “Thank you for playing a gay character who is kind of butch and manly.” One guy said it to me and it was very cool, “I am not attracted to swishy guys, because I like men. I am attracted to men. So thank you for giving us a character who is masculine and attractive.”
You mention the “friendly gay neighbor” and playing the masculine gay guy. So what do you think of the guys on the hit comedy series Modern Family?
Listen, Modern Family is fantastic, and both Eric Stonestreet and Jesse Tyler Ferguson are phenomenal. What Eric is doing is he is playing a stereotype, and yet not. He is walking that line where he is very swishy and fey, but always believable. But you never feel like, “Oh, look at this straight guy putting on a stereotype.”
And finally, what did you think of Newt Gingrich’s recent comments that GCB is anti-Christian and the use of GCB in his platform, while running for election in the recent Republican primaries?
Well, you know [Laughs] there are so many answers. One of the things I have been addressing is: to any people who say the show is anti-Christian, I think they have not seen the show and they are riffing off the title of the show and not the content in the show. The show is not anti-Christian and the show is actually very respectful towards the church itself. It’s mocking hypocrisy. But as for Newt, I am sorry, glass houses. This is the guy who, going back to the Bill Clinton blow job, was hounding Bill Clinton over it, while he himself was having his enth number of affairs. What Newt did in his marriage is none of my business, just as what Bill Clinton did in his marriage was none of my business. But the hypocrisy of these people who get so self-righteous and who are living in the proverbial glass house, I just don’t understand it. To quote scriptures: “Don’t talk to your brother about the splinter in his eye; look at the plank in your own eye.”